Having a conversation about suicide is sensitive and difficult, and these conversations become even more challenging when trying to have them with your own children. Most military dependents who die by suicide are boys under 18 years old, and 1 in 5 teens has been exposed to the suicide death of a friend, relative or acquaintance, according to the Mental Health Foundation. These realities highlight the importance of equipping adults with the knowledge and confidence needed to talk with children about suicide and suicide prevention.
U.S. Army Garrison Wiesbaden’s Family Advocacy Program and Army Substance Abuse Program are addressing this need through a Positive Parenting class titled “How to Talk to Kids About Suicide Prevention.” The class was developed in response to community feedback following a child suicide, which revealed a significant gap in programming to support parents and educators navigating these discussions.
“One of the most common misconceptions surrounding suicide prevention is the belief that talking about suicide with children increases their risk,” said Laura Reid, U.S. Army Garrison Wiesbaden FAP educator. “Research consistently shows the opposite. Open, age-appropriate conversations can help reduce risk, diminish ‑stigma and create more opportunities for timely support.”
To enhance adult confidence and preparedness, Reid teaches a class designed for parents, educators and caregivers. The class covers a broad range of topics relevant to children’s mental health and safety, including social, digital and military influences on youth well-being; protective and risk factors; lethal means safety; appropriate communication strategies; crisis resources; and prevention and support services.
“The goal is to provide adults with practical tools and knowledge to talk with children about suicide and suicide prevention in a supportive, developmentally appropriate and consistent manner that aligns with Army-wide prevention efforts,” Reid said.
USAG Wiesbaden FAP and ASAP delivered this class to Families across the community in April and May in recognition of Month of the Military Child, Child Abuse Prevention Month and Mental Health Awareness Month.
Reid said it is important to remember that military children are not inherently resilient. Military children become resilient because of the resources and support available to them when they face challenges. She noted that an Army study found children who experience abuse have an elevated risk of suicide.
“Our communities need adults who are willing and able to talk to children about suicide and suicide prevention,” Reid said.
Tips for Talking to Children About Suicide Prevention
• Start simple and add detail as children get older.
• Be honest.
• Talk about warning signs.
• Encourage and support requests for help.
Tips for Talking to Kids About a Suicide or Suicide Attempt
• Do not share personal information or images without consent.
• Share information about support resources.
• Correct misinformation.
• Avoid negative, false, judgmental or abstract statements.
• Pay attention to warning signs.
• Offer specific support.
If you or someone you know needs immediate support, contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline or a warmline in your area.
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