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Honoring the Military Child

By Sgt. Clara HartyApril 26, 2022

Honoring the Military Child
1 / 2 Show Caption + Hide Caption – Sgt. 1st Class John Stefanik, a UH-60 Blackhawk helicopter repairer assigned to 404th Aviation Support Battalion, 4th Combat Aviation Brigade, 4th Infantry Division, sits in the cockpit of a Ch-47 Chinook with his son, Aiden, April 6, 2022, at Fort Carson, Colorado. As a military child, Aiden loves visiting the hangar where his father works, but prefers to learn more about his favorite helicopter, the Chinook, than Blackhawks. (U.S. Army photo by Sgt. Clara Harty) (Photo Credit: Sgt. Clara Harty) VIEW ORIGINAL
Honoring the Military Child
2 / 2 Show Caption + Hide Caption – Aiden Stefanik, a military child visiting his father’s workplace, pretends to inspect wires inside the body of his favorite helicopter, a CH-47 Chinook, April 6, 2022, at Fort Carson, Colorado. During April, the Army recognizes the Month of the Military Child and thanks them for the support and contributions they make on behalf of their Soldiers. (U.S. Army photo by Sgt. Clara Harty) (Photo Credit: Sgt. Clara Harty) VIEW ORIGINAL

FORT CARSON, Colo. — If you ever talk with Soldiers in an aviation unit, you will quickly realize that everyone seems to have a favorite helicopter. This includes Sgt. 1st Class John Stefanik, a UH-60 Black Hawk helicopter repairer assigned to 404th Aviation Support Battalion, 4th Combat Aviation Brigade, 4th Infantry Division, and his 9-year-old son, Aiden. During April, the Army aims to show its support and appreciation for military kids, like Aiden, by showing them what we do.

"My favorite part about coming here is that I get to see the helicopters and see inside of them," said Aiden. "My favorite helicopter is the one behind me — the Chinook."

Stefanik said bringing his son to work with him doesn't just help Aiden, but it also shows his Soldiers he has a life outside of work — one where he is a father and a role model.

"I think the benefit is that he gets to see what actually goes on behind the scenes and the things I deal with at work," said Stefanik. "It gives him a better understanding when I explain to him what I was doing at work, and it shows the Soldiers that I'm not just a platoon sergeant and supervisor."

Honoring the Military Child
1 / 2 Show Caption + Hide Caption – Sgt. 1st Class John Stefanik, a UH-60 Black Hawk helicopter repairer assigned to 404th Aviation Support Battalion, 4th Combat Aviation Brigade, 4th Infantry Division, poses with his son, Aiden, April 6, 2022, at Fort Carson, Colorado. Aiden is just one of many military children that helps to support the Army through the support he gives his family. (U.S. Army photo by Spc. Tyler Brock) (Photo Credit: Spc. Tyler Brock) VIEW ORIGINAL
Honoring the Military Child
2 / 2 Show Caption + Hide Caption – Staff Sgt. James Harty, a CH-47 Chinook helicopter repairer assigned to 404th Aviation Support Battalion, 4th Combat Aviation Brigade, 4th Infantry Division, shows Aiden Stefanik, a military child who loves chinooks, how to inspect repairs on the helicopter April 6, 2022, at Fort Carson, Colorado. During the Month of the Military Child, the Army aims to support our military children and show our appreciation for the sacrifices they make by showing the kids an up-close view of what their parents do. (U.S. Army photo by Sgt. Clara Harty) (Photo Credit: Sgt. Clara Harty) VIEW ORIGINAL

Right after Aiden was born, Stefanik said he spent a time supporting the Secretary of the Army and the Chief of Staff of the Army and then moved to Korea, where he lived without his family for a year. Although his family was later able to stay with him in Korea for three months, they soon parted ways again.

"It's not as easy as people would think," said Stefanik. "It's tough not to be there and help raise your child. It makes it tough especially on the spouse. She's raising our son effectively by herself and that's tough on everybody."

Plenty of Families in the military go through similar situations, and yet these Families never cease to encourage and support their service members. The Month of the Military Child is at least one way the Army can show their appreciation and thanks.

"Growing up, everyone in uniform was daddy's buddy," said Stefanik. "Whether they be Marine Corps, Air Force or anyone in uniform, I think it's really important that he shows that respect and that kindness. I'd really just like to thank my son for being there and loving what I do."