For Massachusetts Soldier, path to military service was a spiritual one

By Joseph Lacdan, Army News ServiceSeptember 24, 2020

Kanwar Singh silently prays before his commissioning ceremony aboard the USS Constitution in August 2018. Singh, a practicing Sikh and native of New Dehli, enlisted in the Army to attend officer candidate school in Massachusetts in 2015, but had...
Kanwar Singh silently prays before his commissioning ceremony aboard the USS Constitution in August 2018. Singh, a practicing Sikh and native of New Dehli, enlisted in the Army to attend officer candidate school in Massachusetts in 2015, but had to file for a religious accommodation to continue serving while practicing his faith. (Photo Credit: Mark Wilson) VIEW ORIGINAL

BOSTON -- As he stood among his fellow uniformed candidates awaiting the ceremony that would finally make them commissioned officers, Kanwar Singh looked upward, toward the sky and thanked God.

A devout Sikh, Singh turned to his faith in times of good and times of trial, knowing that devotion and prayer could carry him past obstacles, whether making it through the final weeks of basic training, or while standing against prejudice.

Huddled on the wooden deck of the USS Constitution, each of the 17 officer candidates sported Army service caps. The males had clean-shaven faces, except for Singh who had a beard and wore a black turban covering his dark hair.

Minutes later, Singh took the officer’s oath and rendered his first salute to 1st Sgt. John Helbert, his former recruiter, who spent years helping Singh reach this moment. The August 2018 commissioning ceremony marked a culmination of a journey far longer than Singh had anticipated.

Four years before, Singh, now a second lieutenant in the National Guard, filed for a religious accommodation following meetings with Helbert. Sikhs consider hair a sacred extension of the body and therefore must remain unshorn. Before his passing, the tenth Sikh guru, Guru Gobind Singh, designated uncut hair as a sign of respect for God and also mandated that turbans must always be worn to maintain Sikh’s saint-soldier identity.

Kanwar Singh requested a provision from the Army to allow him to adhere to these requirements. His quest for a religious accommodation eventually landed him in Washington, D.C., and delayed his commission, but he continued to persist with the support of the nonprofit group Sikh Coalition and his fellow Guard members.

The Army granted him an interim religious accommodation in 2016 to attend basic combat training while keeping his articles of faith intact. The Army released a new directive in January 2017 based on the performance of previous Soldiers who received religious accommodations. It allowed Sikhs and members of other faiths to don articles of faith while in uniform permanently.

“If I had quit, I would not have been able to serve,” said Singh, 30. “Today, there are hundreds, if not thousands, of patriotic American Sikhs, Jews, Muslims, Christians and service-members of other faiths who now have religious accommodations.

“That's important to us as Sikhs; it's not about us,” he added. “It's also about the … broader societal good and that was important to me.”

In the years since, the Army and Defense Department further updated their stance on religious liberties. The DOD released new instruction Sept. 1 that improved the process for accommodating religious practices, holding that “sincerely” held religious beliefs do not impact military readiness. Further, Army commanders at every level will be “trained and advised on the principles, policies and procedures related to religious liberties and appropriate accommodations for religious practices,” per an Army directive published in July.

Kanwar Singh renders his first salute to his former recruiter, 1st Sgt. John Helbert, during his commissioning ceremony in Boston.
Kanwar Singh renders his first salute to his former recruiter, 1st Sgt. John Helbert, during his commissioning ceremony in Boston. (Photo Credit: Mark Wilson) VIEW ORIGINAL

Journey of faith

Singh left New Delhi in the summer of 2007 carrying only two suitcases and a few changes of clothes.

He hoped that in America he could practice Sikhism in peace and like the millions of immigrants before him, the country’s boundless opportunities enticed him. Sikhs, no strangers to the U.S., migrated to the West Coast to work on the railroads and on California farms in the early 20th century in search for religious freedom.

India’s massive cosmopolitan capital houses more than 21 million residents and hosts a wealth of cultures. However, religious minorities there often face oppression or even violence for practicing their faith. According to India’s most recent census, more than 20 million Indians practice Sikhism but account for less than 2% of India’s population.

Singh's family moved from the West Punjab region of British India during the partition of the country into India and Pakistan in 1947. Britain’s separation of the two states led to mass migration of people along religious lines.

Sikhs often have been the subject of religious persecution. In 1984, mobs slaughtered thousands of Sikhs after Indian Prime Minister Indira Gandhi was assassinated by her Sikh bodyguards after she ordered the Indian military to attack Sikh’s holiest place of worship in Punjab.

By 2007, those responsible for the mass murders had not yet faced trial for their crimes and Singh knew he didn’t want to live in such an environment.

So at the age of 17, Singh made the journey west -- one that would eventually land him on the campus of Harvard University, a lucrative job at a financial services company and a commission with the National Guard.

“I knew that this is a land of opportunity,” Singh said. “You certainly have a lot more freedoms here than you would where I grew up. I was really excited about that.”

He moved in with family members in Richmond, Virginia, and quickly connected with other Sikh families in the area. By the time he graduated from Virginia Commonwealth University with a business degree in 2011, he missed the rush of living in a larger city and left for Boston to fulfill a lifelong professional and academic dream with an opportunity to study at Harvard University.

Singh wanted to serve his country in a larger capacity. As a member of the Massachusetts National Guard, his service to his adopted country aligns with Sikh beliefs of service toward others.

“For him, [military service] comes from a place of being able to serve God as well as his country,” said Harsimran Kaur, a member of the Sikh Coalition who helped Singh acquire his religious accommodation. “I think for him that’s pretty deeply intertwined.”

Sikhs hold military service in high regard, encouraging their members to learn self-defense and to protect others. Singh’s grandfather and great grandfather served in the British Army in the Sikh regiment.

“Sikh beliefs are selfless service, giving back and helping others,” said Singh, who also speaks Punjabi, Hindi and Urdu. “And I feel those are actually very aligned not just with the American values, but even our Army values.”

He felt the impact of the 2013 Boston Marathon bombings after he moved from Virginia to Boston a year later by conversing with Bostonians who remembered. Singh attended a speech by the late Arizona Sen. John McCain at Harvard Kennedy School encouraging students to join the armed forces, and that further inspired him to join the military of his adoptive country.

He read about the National Guard’s mission and its role in disaster response as well as national emergencies and decided he wanted to be a part of it.

In the spring of 2014, Singh applied to the Air National Guard but after a brief conversation with an Air Force recruiter about wanting a religious accommodation and several unanswered emails, he did not receive a call back.

He then contacted an Army recruiter, then-Sgt.1st Class Helbert, who pledged to help him become a Soldier. “He did not give up on me,” Singh said.

However, Singh’s mission to serve would be further delayed.

While pursuing a master’s degree in liberal arts from Harvard and a master’s in business administration from University of Massachusetts, Singh endured a lengthy legal process for nearly two years. After finally being allowed to enlist in 2015, Singh, then assigned the rank of specialist, requested a religious accommodation so that he would be allowed to wear the traditional Sikh turban and would not have to shave his beard.

In April 2016, an Army recruiting commander asked Singh if he would shave his head and facial hair for basic training, which he was scheduled to start the next month. Singh said that he could not.

“I was really being asked to either serve my country or give up my religious beliefs,” he said.

Despite a history of Sikhs serving in the U.S. military dating back to World War I, the Army changed its standards in the 1980s. In the past 11 years the service granted a small number of Sikhs’ religious waivers, mostly in the medical field. Then-Capt. Kamaljeet Singh Kalsi became the first Sikh since the Vietnam era to be granted a religious accommodation in 2009.

Singh could not be issued uniforms or attend basic training during that time. Helbert promised to do whatever he could to help him become a Soldier, helping Singh file the paperwork necessary for his accommodation. “I could not go to my drills in uniform,” he said. “[We] were not even allowed to go to the training. So I was basically in this weird status.”

At the same Harvard Kennedy School venue where Singh heard Senator McCain present in 2014, Singh asked then-Defense Secretary Ash Carter how he felt about allowing the opportunity to serve in the military to anyone, regardless of religious beliefs in December 2015. Carter said that he appreciated Singh’s desire to serve.

After the Army passed the January 2017 directive on the wearing of religious articles, Singh’s interim religious accommodation from 2016 was made permanent. He would now be allowed to serve in the Army while wearing a turban throughout his career. Because of the lengthy legal process, Singh took four years to complete basic training and officer candidate school, which students normally finish in two.

Still, of the 35 students his class, Singh joined the 17 who qualified for a commission.

Another tenet of the Sikh faith: they will see difficult tasks or obstacles to the end.

In the 17th century, a reported 7,000 died during the Sikh Holocaust. During the 1984 violence against Sikhs, more than 3,000 Sikhs lost their lives in New Delhi and tens of thousands perished throughout India.

“One of the things that we are taught is we will literally be killed for the right to practice our religion,” Singh said. “I've always remembered that. And I've sort of always believed that as a Sikh -- you don't give up; you never quit.”

When he faced great adversity, such as his platoon’s final ruck march in basic combat training, Singh resorted to meditation and prayer hosting prayer sessions with fellow recruits.

Second Lt. Kanwar Singh, left, presents his "kirpan" or Sikh dagger to officer candidate school commander, Maj. Christian Paluk of the 101st Regiment, Regional Training Institute following Singh's commissioning ceremony in Boston.
Second Lt. Kanwar Singh, left, presents his "kirpan" or Sikh dagger to officer candidate school commander, Maj. Christian Paluk of the 101st Regiment, Regional Training Institute following Singh's commissioning ceremony in Boston. (Photo Credit: Mark Wilson) VIEW ORIGINAL

An outsider no more

Once in 2018, while walking the streets of Boston, a woman told Singh to “go back to your country.”

Occasionally in his civilian life and during his undergraduate years he would hear racist comments. Sikhs often can be mistaken for being affiliated with Al Qaeda or ISIS. In certain parts of the world, some face prejudice and sometimes violent attacks.

In the U.S. Army, Singh said, he said he has received no such treatment.

Since Singh attended basic training at Fort Jackson, South Carolina, and OCS in Massachusetts, he has not experienced any acts of discrimination in the Army, he said.

“The [Soldiers] that I work with at the ground level, they don't see my skin color,” said Singh, who became a U.S. citizen in 2014. “They don't see that I have either a turban or a beard. They see me as a Soldier who can get the job done.”

Fittingly, Sikh means “learner” in Punjabi as Sikhs value education. Last December, Singh added a third master’s degree in information technology. With his experience in the financial industry as a product leader and a management consultant, Singh represents the young innovative thinkers the Army sought to recruit as it advances toward future battlefield operations.

In July, he released an artificial intelligence-enabled iOS mobile app he created for the Air Force and Army, called “Camo for Military,” that helps Soldiers and Airmen manage inventory, report personnel issues and communicate effectively.

“When I built this mobile app I did not build it in hopes that I would get paid,” Singh said from his home office in Boston. “It's more like I see a problem with how we serve our Soldiers and Airmen. How can we fix their experience through better use of technology?”

As a signal officer, he leads Soldiers in the management of network operations, data communication and classified systems. He also serves on the Massachusetts National Guard Innovation Team, collaborating with the state’s adjutant general to plan “hackathon” training exercises and design thinking sessions.

In the two years since his commissioning in the National Guard, he has earned the Army Commendation, Army Achievement and the Air Force Achievement medals.

Everyone is the ‘same’

As a 13-year-old, Singh recalled one summer when construction laborers began building his family’s house in New Delhi. From 7 a.m. until 7 p.m. he worked in the summer heat, shoveling dirt, laying bricks and moving cement. “That was the toughest job I’ve had,” Singh said.

Today, he still emulates the same humility by serving others -- his fellow Soldiers or his teams of software engineers and product designers in his civilian job as a digital project leader. And true to his faith, he preaches equality in both his professional and spiritual life.

Kanwar Singh, a second lieutenant in the Massachusetts National Guard, works as a digital project leader for a major financial services company in Boston. Singh has earned three master's degrees including a master's of liberal arts from...
Kanwar Singh, a second lieutenant in the Massachusetts National Guard, works as a digital project leader for a major financial services company in Boston. Singh has earned three master's degrees including a master's of liberal arts from Harvard University. (Photo Credit: Courtesy photo) VIEW ORIGINAL

Just north of Boston’s Mystic River in a plain beige brick building, Singh and other Sikhs gather to worship at the Boston Sikh Sangat, known as a “gurdwara.” Following the teachings of the Sikh gurus, the religion’s founders and spiritual leaders, Singh asks people of all backgrounds and religions to dine eating a simple vegetarian dish on the floor.

Singh once sat with Massachusetts State Sen. Jason Lewis on the gurdwara floor similar to the way a king or queen would be asked to sit with everyday worshippers. Among the core beliefs of Sikh faith: kindness and acceptance toward others regardless of their socioeconomic status or cultural background.

Sikhs also believe in the removal of one’s ego and selfishness or pride. Singh applies that to his leadership philosophy choosing to have meetings with open discussions instead of imposing his rank or management status on others. He serves in a special emphasis program for diversity and inclusion in the Massachusetts National Guard.

“I never look at myself as above someone,” Singh said. “We're all part of the same team. And I like to get my hands dirty myself.

“So if my team has to do something that they're not interested in … putting up tents for example, fueling generators or moving equipment around, I want to be the first one to do it because I want my team to follow me.”

Sikhs believe that human beings inherently are a part of God and by committing to the service of others they can become closer to God. By applying the lessons of his faith in his duties as a Soldier, Singh believes he has taken another step.

Kaur, who has known Singh since he began petitioning to serve with the religious accommodation, marveled at his dedication.

“He's the type of person you would want to see joining the military because he's so bright but he is also really serving for all the right reasons; from a real deep-rooted sense of patriotism,” she said.

"One of the benefits you have as a signal Soldier or Officer is the opportunity to earn technical certifications that are HIGHLY sought after in the civilian job market." - 2LT Kanwar Singh, Signal Officer in the Massachusetts Army National Guard

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