Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors founder and military widow Bonnie Carroll (right) is with Monica Velez at the TAPS Fort Hood Regional Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp in Texas. Velez is grieving the deaths of both of her younger brothers and found help at TAPS for coping with her grief. Cpl. Jose "Freddie" Velez was killed in Iraq in 2004 and Spc. Andrew Velez died in 2006 while deployed to Afghanistan.